Yesterday the ladies in the department surprised me with a baby shower - complete with cake and games and gifts. It was very sweet of them to do that. I don't know many of them very well, so I felt a tad undeserving at their generosity. But like my mom said, I'll be able to pay it forward in the future and give gifts when the next office baby arrives.
Just for fun, here's what we got:
- Hooded bath towel, washcloths, Aveeno baby shampoo
- Dishwasher caddy, 2 pk of Dr Brown's bottles, travel diaper pad
- Car seat protector, Brown Bear Brown Bear, really soft blanket
- Beanie baby, handmade fleece stroller blanket
- Swaddle blankets, baby sunglasses, activity mat
- $120 to Target, Jacques the Peacock, $20 at Walmart
I mean seriously! That's a lot of stuff! So I felt pretty blessed after all that. Baby Lucy getting lots of love.
I have a friend/family shower this Saturday. Rachel, Julia & Courtney are hosting. I hope they don't go to too much trouble! The guest list will likely only include my mom, CT's mom + 4 aunts + grandma, 2 of my friends and 2 more Boone friends.
I'm getting antsy to have the closet system for Lucy's room installed. We might try to pick up the paint after work & paint her room tonight & tomorrow. I would love to have it painted & put back together before the shower on Saturday. That way all these gifts we keep getting have someplace to go! My parents are planning on bringing down the dresser - which I am really excited about!
Coming up: painting the nursery, getting our taxes done (!), doctor's visit on friday, baby shower on saturday & my parents will be here
Wednesday, March 23, 2011
Friday, March 18, 2011
35 weeks
I had another doctor appointment yesterday. Everything looks great! Baby was laying on my right side, and her heartbeat sounds good - clocking in at around 137bpm. My belly measures 35 cm, which is right on track, and I'm up 1lb over 2 weeks. I saw yet another doctor but I liked her, she was very nice. The front desk was busy, so I didn't ask, but they do have on-call schedules so I can know which doctor will be there when I go into labor. So baby is up to around 5 1/2 lbs - she still has some growing to do!
My latest pregnancy woe is that I don't sleep very soundly anymore. I wake up at 3 or 4 in the morning (even if I'm exhausted when going to bed) and am very awake. I don't know what the deal is! And then I'm so sleepy during the mornings, and my legs get achy (probably from tossing & turning all night). Some say it's nature's way of preparing me for being up every few hours in the near future...but right now I have nothing to be up for and I still have to go to work!
We had our last baby class last night. The instructor invited a pediatrician to field questions for awhile. Which reminds me, again, that we need to line up a pediatrician. When I looked into office hours, the Iowa Methodist group seemed to have better hours & more pediatricians at the Ankeny location. I don't know why I'm suddenly all worried about getting a "good" one. If we don't get along, we can just switch over to Mercer another day. The rest of the class was a discussion on c-sections and watching another birth video. Then she broke out the empathy belly for the guys to wear. It was pretty funny! I made CT lay down and stand back up, tie his shoes, etc. He did say it was awkward & got in the way. See!
Oh - the visit from last weekend! The crib is just amazing - it's so beautiful. And my mom did such a lovely job with the curtains & crib skirts. I love walking by her room every day. All that's left to do is paint & install the closet system. My dad is finishing up the dresser (which is going to be awesome) and my mom will bring that down next weekend. Overall it was a really nice visit. After some frenzied assembling of the baby's room, we did enjoy a more relaxed evening and Sunday. It was good to see John - and he got to see my baby bump and feel her kick.
Coming up: a quick trip to Minnesota so I can go with Kayla at her wedding dress appointment on Saturday at 9:15. Then we're driving back & CT is off to watch basketball with guys.
My latest pregnancy woe is that I don't sleep very soundly anymore. I wake up at 3 or 4 in the morning (even if I'm exhausted when going to bed) and am very awake. I don't know what the deal is! And then I'm so sleepy during the mornings, and my legs get achy (probably from tossing & turning all night). Some say it's nature's way of preparing me for being up every few hours in the near future...but right now I have nothing to be up for and I still have to go to work!
We had our last baby class last night. The instructor invited a pediatrician to field questions for awhile. Which reminds me, again, that we need to line up a pediatrician. When I looked into office hours, the Iowa Methodist group seemed to have better hours & more pediatricians at the Ankeny location. I don't know why I'm suddenly all worried about getting a "good" one. If we don't get along, we can just switch over to Mercer another day. The rest of the class was a discussion on c-sections and watching another birth video. Then she broke out the empathy belly for the guys to wear. It was pretty funny! I made CT lay down and stand back up, tie his shoes, etc. He did say it was awkward & got in the way. See!
Oh - the visit from last weekend! The crib is just amazing - it's so beautiful. And my mom did such a lovely job with the curtains & crib skirts. I love walking by her room every day. All that's left to do is paint & install the closet system. My dad is finishing up the dresser (which is going to be awesome) and my mom will bring that down next weekend. Overall it was a really nice visit. After some frenzied assembling of the baby's room, we did enjoy a more relaxed evening and Sunday. It was good to see John - and he got to see my baby bump and feel her kick.
Coming up: a quick trip to Minnesota so I can go with Kayla at her wedding dress appointment on Saturday at 9:15. Then we're driving back & CT is off to watch basketball with guys.
Friday, March 11, 2011
34 weeks
I agree the title is a bit boring, but it's all I'm thinking about lately! Six weeks to go! Our babe is about 5 lbs and her brain is growing like crazy!
We had our baby class last night - we did more breathing & talked about positions and watched a birth video. I'm worried I won't be able to do it. But tons and tons of women have babies, so why shouldn't I be able to? I was feeling embarrassed about the birth part already - for some reason, right now I can't see the beauty part of birth I just think "gosh I don't want my husband to see me like that, he'll never look at me the same again." I hope that when the time comes I'll appreciate the miracle for what it is.
Mom, Dad & John are coming for a visit tomorrow. I'm excited to see them & to see the crib and curtains they're bringing :)
We have some cleaning to do tonight - but the weather is a lovely 55 degrees, so perhaps we'll get a nice walk in for Penny before we stay in and clean. Oh, and it would be a great night to grill!
I am hoping to have my parents take some pregnancy photos with their nice camera (that way we save on having a studio do it) - I was hoping for warmer weather so we could do some outside (and we may, just as well) but it's going to be 40s and windy this weekend.
We got our hospital bags packed this week - I don't have an outfit for Lucy in there yet, but we'll get to that soon! We picked up a carseat this week too. It's the yellow Chicco one (we were deciding between yellow and green) but we can always return it to the store if we don't like it. My one complaint is that the hood doesn't push back very smoothly. I'm wondering if this is just how they are or if we got a bad one. Next time we're near Babies R Us I'll take a look at their display model to compare.
And we're set on getting a City Mini but just need to decide on color. We're pretty close to having almost everything ready to go. I've decided to start maternity leave on April 11th (so just 4 weeks of work left! yay!) and return 6 weeks after the birth + 1 week of vacation = which if everything's on schedule will be early June. I'm going to love having that time off! For the 2 early weeks I'm going to relax, take nice walks, clean & organize the house, finish up any loose ends, and did I mention relax?
I am so eager for her to get here! Actually, I don't want her to come early, I just wish time would go faster!
Coming up: Visit from Mom, Dad & John. Maybe a pregnancy photo shoot? CT has his work trip next Monday - Wednesday. So let's pray that she won't arrive until after then!!
We had our baby class last night - we did more breathing & talked about positions and watched a birth video. I'm worried I won't be able to do it. But tons and tons of women have babies, so why shouldn't I be able to? I was feeling embarrassed about the birth part already - for some reason, right now I can't see the beauty part of birth I just think "gosh I don't want my husband to see me like that, he'll never look at me the same again." I hope that when the time comes I'll appreciate the miracle for what it is.
Mom, Dad & John are coming for a visit tomorrow. I'm excited to see them & to see the crib and curtains they're bringing :)
We have some cleaning to do tonight - but the weather is a lovely 55 degrees, so perhaps we'll get a nice walk in for Penny before we stay in and clean. Oh, and it would be a great night to grill!
I am hoping to have my parents take some pregnancy photos with their nice camera (that way we save on having a studio do it) - I was hoping for warmer weather so we could do some outside (and we may, just as well) but it's going to be 40s and windy this weekend.
We got our hospital bags packed this week - I don't have an outfit for Lucy in there yet, but we'll get to that soon! We picked up a carseat this week too. It's the yellow Chicco one (we were deciding between yellow and green) but we can always return it to the store if we don't like it. My one complaint is that the hood doesn't push back very smoothly. I'm wondering if this is just how they are or if we got a bad one. Next time we're near Babies R Us I'll take a look at their display model to compare.
And we're set on getting a City Mini but just need to decide on color. We're pretty close to having almost everything ready to go. I've decided to start maternity leave on April 11th (so just 4 weeks of work left! yay!) and return 6 weeks after the birth + 1 week of vacation = which if everything's on schedule will be early June. I'm going to love having that time off! For the 2 early weeks I'm going to relax, take nice walks, clean & organize the house, finish up any loose ends, and did I mention relax?
I am so eager for her to get here! Actually, I don't want her to come early, I just wish time would go faster!
Coming up: Visit from Mom, Dad & John. Maybe a pregnancy photo shoot? CT has his work trip next Monday - Wednesday. So let's pray that she won't arrive until after then!!
Friday, March 4, 2011
33 weeks
I had my doctor's appointment yesterday. Everything still checks out fine. Her heartbeat's around 155. My blood pressure is good. The doctor was able to feel around and had me feel where her head was -which was cool. I have a bit a swelling in my legs and hands, but the doctor said she doesn't worry about it unless there is uneven swelling or a really sudden change, and as long as my blood pressure is normal. Like today, I couldn't get my rings on without it being painful (that has occasionally happened before, especially first thing when I wake up & I have to use cold water & a bit of soap to slide them off) this morning :-< big unhappy face. So I'm wearing a simple silver ring in their place. I think the only reason my rings fit up to this point is that it's been winter time.
On another sad note, the scale said I gained 3lbs over 2 weeks. However, I will try to remember that I weighed in the afternoon (all other weigh-ins were in the morning) and that Lucy takes up one of those pounds. The book says she'll still be gaining about 1/2 pound a week from here on out.
Regardless I don't like stepping on the scale and seeing 152. That puts my total gain at 32. And with 7 weeks left, if I continue to gain at least 1/2lb a week I'm at about 36. The books say 25-35 is normal. I'd just rather be in the mid-range instead of the edge! That's just my insecurity kicking in. Hopefully Lucy has her daddy's confidence!
We had baby class last night, but I was in a down mood. I had burned my fingers by grabbing a pan (that I had just taken out of the oven, mind you!) and I was already sad from my dr appt. But luckily the instructor made it a low-key night. We discussed more about pain, labor stages, and medication. After seeing what the epidural is, I don't want one if I can help it. I'm also not okay with the Stadol stuff (that's the pain med that goes into your blood stream & can affect baby too). So it looks like my options are tough it out. :) Which I am willing to do (I say that now, haha). The videos we watch of the pregnant women & their poor husbands looking on helplessly are depressing to me. I hope to have a fighter attitude and do my best to have distractions from the pain. My athletic husband will fit that role nicely. I remember when we went for a few long runs together when I was training for my first half marathon. I was tired and thristy and ready to be done (and I said so!) but he didn't care. He switched into coaching mode and got me through it. I'm expecting the same in the delivery room.
Tomorrow we'll be going to Hickory Park for lunch with Justin & Linda who are down for a visit & other Boone friends. It's supposed to be rainy out - boo. I liked going for long walks on the weekend. Earlier in the week we took Penny to Saylorville and she and C.T. ran along the trail while I walked. The snow was all melted & Penny got filthy muddy - but it was still a good time.
I'm getting an itch to get things in order for Lucy's arrival. We can pick up the glider we ordered from Walmart. We'll order the closet system for her room and buy a carseat. And then hopefully next weekend we'll have furniture in there! I think I'll do some baby laundry, too, just for the heck of it.
We are still deciding on strollers. We really like the Baby Jogger City Mini but can't decide on color. The easy collapse thing is just too sweet to pass up!
Coming up: Lunch tomorrow in Ames, a Target run, and then who knows!
On another sad note, the scale said I gained 3lbs over 2 weeks. However, I will try to remember that I weighed in the afternoon (all other weigh-ins were in the morning) and that Lucy takes up one of those pounds. The book says she'll still be gaining about 1/2 pound a week from here on out.
Regardless I don't like stepping on the scale and seeing 152. That puts my total gain at 32. And with 7 weeks left, if I continue to gain at least 1/2lb a week I'm at about 36. The books say 25-35 is normal. I'd just rather be in the mid-range instead of the edge! That's just my insecurity kicking in. Hopefully Lucy has her daddy's confidence!
We had baby class last night, but I was in a down mood. I had burned my fingers by grabbing a pan (that I had just taken out of the oven, mind you!) and I was already sad from my dr appt. But luckily the instructor made it a low-key night. We discussed more about pain, labor stages, and medication. After seeing what the epidural is, I don't want one if I can help it. I'm also not okay with the Stadol stuff (that's the pain med that goes into your blood stream & can affect baby too). So it looks like my options are tough it out. :) Which I am willing to do (I say that now, haha). The videos we watch of the pregnant women & their poor husbands looking on helplessly are depressing to me. I hope to have a fighter attitude and do my best to have distractions from the pain. My athletic husband will fit that role nicely. I remember when we went for a few long runs together when I was training for my first half marathon. I was tired and thristy and ready to be done (and I said so!) but he didn't care. He switched into coaching mode and got me through it. I'm expecting the same in the delivery room.
Tomorrow we'll be going to Hickory Park for lunch with Justin & Linda who are down for a visit & other Boone friends. It's supposed to be rainy out - boo. I liked going for long walks on the weekend. Earlier in the week we took Penny to Saylorville and she and C.T. ran along the trail while I walked. The snow was all melted & Penny got filthy muddy - but it was still a good time.
I'm getting an itch to get things in order for Lucy's arrival. We can pick up the glider we ordered from Walmart. We'll order the closet system for her room and buy a carseat. And then hopefully next weekend we'll have furniture in there! I think I'll do some baby laundry, too, just for the heck of it.
We are still deciding on strollers. We really like the Baby Jogger City Mini but can't decide on color. The easy collapse thing is just too sweet to pass up!
Coming up: Lunch tomorrow in Ames, a Target run, and then who knows!
Monday, February 28, 2011
32 weeks - Nice Peaceful Stroll :)
I hit 32 weeks on Saturday. Which means our little girl is about 4lbs now (she'll continue gaining about 1/2lb every week) and practicing for life on the outside.
Baby class last week went fine. There was an awful balloon and ping pong ball demonstration. We talked about pain & coping mechanisms. I'm not all that worried about the pain - maybe that's naive or maybe that's just positive thinking - because I've had pretty painful menstrual cramps in high school and college. This can't be much worse I'd imagine. There's a purpose to this pain, and it's temporary. One thing that's reassuring to hear is that especially for first time moms the labor starts out pretty slow.
Our furniture arrived and so our house looks much more homey & put together. Our to-do list is still there, but it's shrinking! On Saturday, C.T. diagnosed the fridge (it was so noisy) by taking it apart & ordering a new part and I paid bills. We tried to do a bit of shopping but it didn't go very well (my fault there - I wasn't feeling very good and did not make the best shopping partner). That night we played cards at the Albers. On Sunday we got started kind of late, but we were able to take Penny for a long walk along Saylorville. The snow is cleared off the path & the temperature was perfect. Penny was really worn out afterwards which was awesome. We ate dinner with Carlson's and Alber's and Jacobsen's at Felix & Oscars, then watched the Amazing Race at Albers. It was a nice weekend.
One more comment on the walk - it was just so lovely and peaceful. We didn't see anyone else on the path, and Penny could run free a few steps ahead of us. She's so good at staying close. I felt very happy - the weather was nice, I was getting fresh air and exercise, and I was with my awesome husband and puppy.
On Friday night I had a small breakdown about my job and how I feel like my life lacks direction right now. C.T. tried to be as understanding as he could. I still don't have it all figured out, but I am trying to have a better attitude about things.
In 5 weeks she'll be full-term. Wow. And only 8 weeks until my due date. My parents and brother (he's on spring break and will be in MN) are coming to visit in a week or so. They are bringing the crib and maybe dresser if it's completed. C.T. and I want to paint her room soon (well, C.T. will paint it, I can maybe help tape but then I'm ordered to leave the house!)
Coming up: Doctor's appointment on Thursday, Baby class Thursday evening, then another open weekend.
Baby class last week went fine. There was an awful balloon and ping pong ball demonstration. We talked about pain & coping mechanisms. I'm not all that worried about the pain - maybe that's naive or maybe that's just positive thinking - because I've had pretty painful menstrual cramps in high school and college. This can't be much worse I'd imagine. There's a purpose to this pain, and it's temporary. One thing that's reassuring to hear is that especially for first time moms the labor starts out pretty slow.
Our furniture arrived and so our house looks much more homey & put together. Our to-do list is still there, but it's shrinking! On Saturday, C.T. diagnosed the fridge (it was so noisy) by taking it apart & ordering a new part and I paid bills. We tried to do a bit of shopping but it didn't go very well (my fault there - I wasn't feeling very good and did not make the best shopping partner). That night we played cards at the Albers. On Sunday we got started kind of late, but we were able to take Penny for a long walk along Saylorville. The snow is cleared off the path & the temperature was perfect. Penny was really worn out afterwards which was awesome. We ate dinner with Carlson's and Alber's and Jacobsen's at Felix & Oscars, then watched the Amazing Race at Albers. It was a nice weekend.
One more comment on the walk - it was just so lovely and peaceful. We didn't see anyone else on the path, and Penny could run free a few steps ahead of us. She's so good at staying close. I felt very happy - the weather was nice, I was getting fresh air and exercise, and I was with my awesome husband and puppy.
On Friday night I had a small breakdown about my job and how I feel like my life lacks direction right now. C.T. tried to be as understanding as he could. I still don't have it all figured out, but I am trying to have a better attitude about things.
In 5 weeks she'll be full-term. Wow. And only 8 weeks until my due date. My parents and brother (he's on spring break and will be in MN) are coming to visit in a week or so. They are bringing the crib and maybe dresser if it's completed. C.T. and I want to paint her room soon (well, C.T. will paint it, I can maybe help tape but then I'm ordered to leave the house!)
Coming up: Doctor's appointment on Thursday, Baby class Thursday evening, then another open weekend.
Friday, February 18, 2011
31 weeks
I'll have completed 31 weeks tomorrow! That means only 9 to go - wow.
I had a doctor's appointment yesterday morning - I'm up 1 lb over 2 weeks, my legs are a little puffy, and everything else checks out fine. Baby's heartbeat was at 135, at the lower end of the scale but nothing to worry about. Maybe she just already has an awesome metabolism, lol. I saw Dr Hancock, he was nice & is very chatty. I had to switch my appointment to the downtown office because the Alero is having issues, and again I waited at least a half hour extra to see the doc. Oh well I guess.
By the way, yesterday's temperature was 68 degrees. Now we're back into the 40's which feels more appropriate for February. Last night we went to the first Prenatal class. The class is small, about 7 couples - some of who are very quiet and not chatty at all - they don't seem all that into being there, which is strange to me because it's a voluntary class! The instructor was nice, but I'm not sure how much we'll get out of the class. There are 4 more weeks so I guess we'll see how it goes!
It's Iowa high school wrestling tournament weekend. C.T. asked me if he should have taught high school & coached at Boone instead of doing the insurance thing. It's this way every year. :)
In other news, Kayla & Steve are engaged!! Date & location haven't been discussed yet, but I'm so happy they decided to forego the "Steve has to have a job before we can even think of getting married" thing. They clearly choose to be together, so what's the hold up with marriage? I'm looking forward to helping out with wedding details. Thinking back to our wedding, I'm so glad I don't have to do that again - too many decisions to make!
The girls here have offered to throw me a shower - and the date will be March 26. I think C.T. and I are going to try to register for some baby things this weekend. The shower itself will be small, and I don't expect people to get many things - but it'll be nice to get the discount on things. The one thing I can't get over is what stroller to get. I want to get a good one right off the bat that will last for multiple kids and can go from infant to toddler (so we don't have a bucket baby). Trouble is finding a store that has a floor model to try out.
Coming up: Registering for baby, cleaning up the house, putting together a closet system for Lucy's room...that's it!
I had a doctor's appointment yesterday morning - I'm up 1 lb over 2 weeks, my legs are a little puffy, and everything else checks out fine. Baby's heartbeat was at 135, at the lower end of the scale but nothing to worry about. Maybe she just already has an awesome metabolism, lol. I saw Dr Hancock, he was nice & is very chatty. I had to switch my appointment to the downtown office because the Alero is having issues, and again I waited at least a half hour extra to see the doc. Oh well I guess.
By the way, yesterday's temperature was 68 degrees. Now we're back into the 40's which feels more appropriate for February. Last night we went to the first Prenatal class. The class is small, about 7 couples - some of who are very quiet and not chatty at all - they don't seem all that into being there, which is strange to me because it's a voluntary class! The instructor was nice, but I'm not sure how much we'll get out of the class. There are 4 more weeks so I guess we'll see how it goes!
It's Iowa high school wrestling tournament weekend. C.T. asked me if he should have taught high school & coached at Boone instead of doing the insurance thing. It's this way every year. :)
In other news, Kayla & Steve are engaged!! Date & location haven't been discussed yet, but I'm so happy they decided to forego the "Steve has to have a job before we can even think of getting married" thing. They clearly choose to be together, so what's the hold up with marriage? I'm looking forward to helping out with wedding details. Thinking back to our wedding, I'm so glad I don't have to do that again - too many decisions to make!
The girls here have offered to throw me a shower - and the date will be March 26. I think C.T. and I are going to try to register for some baby things this weekend. The shower itself will be small, and I don't expect people to get many things - but it'll be nice to get the discount on things. The one thing I can't get over is what stroller to get. I want to get a good one right off the bat that will last for multiple kids and can go from infant to toddler (so we don't have a bucket baby). Trouble is finding a store that has a floor model to try out.
Coming up: Registering for baby, cleaning up the house, putting together a closet system for Lucy's room...that's it!
Wednesday, February 9, 2011
30 weeks!
Ok, well almost. But that means we are 10 weeks away - that sounds crazy! And yet, I am ready to be done. No offense baby Lucy! I love caring for you during this time, but I'm sooo anxious to see you and hold you and kiss you! She's around 3 lbs now, and about 17 inches in length. She's still very active, and I can feel some big punches and kicks now and then. On my pregnancy woe list is heart burn (sometimes out of nowhere, like today), crazy dreams (last night I gave birth to twins, found out that day), a belly that feels like it cannot be stretched any further, achy pelvic muscles, and overall lack of feeling pretty.
I'm really starting to stress out about our decision whether or not I'll be working full time. I know that it is an "acceptable" option, but I don't care! I'm having a hard time discussing this with C.T. because he's convinced we'll need extra money to make ends meet, and he's not acting all that flexible on changing our lifestyle. I guess we just pray about it - perhaps together would be best. I contacted Bonnie to see if there were potential work remotely options at Mercer. She wrote me back a positive email and said she'll look into it for me. Though, even if that works out, we still have to do something about care during the day - be it a nanny or daycare, etc. But at least I can have some flexibility to my day. Continuing to work at NW provides me zero flexibility.
We took a quick trip to MN last weekend and found some furniture at Crate & Barrel. So that's on its way. I really dislike shopping, and spending money, so it was not the best trip in my book. But we got to see my parents for a bit and C.T. feels a lot better about getting the house furnished. And around the same time, C.T. got struck with an icky cold. I thankfully never got it as bad (I think it's because of all the prenatal vitamins I take!)
Tomorrow I'm taking C.T. "out" for valentine's day. Though he'll probably guess the location before we get there (he usually is good at guessing), I'm taking him to the Art Museum. They're open late on Thursday evenings. Three or so years ago when we were living in Des Moines we went because valentines was on a thursday. So, this year we're celebrating early, but hopefully it's as fun as it was last time. And then maybe stop for dinner/dessert.
Coming up: We have a mostly open weekend ahead, and the weather is supposed to be 40s and gorgeous (especially compared to the last few days of below 0 temps). Perhaps we'll take the Penster for a long walk along Saylorville. About a week or so ago we went for the first time and it's a really nice peaceful stroll.
In celebration of Saul & Mike's birthdays we'll be getting together for dinner on Sunday.
I'm really starting to stress out about our decision whether or not I'll be working full time. I know that it is an "acceptable" option, but I don't care! I'm having a hard time discussing this with C.T. because he's convinced we'll need extra money to make ends meet, and he's not acting all that flexible on changing our lifestyle. I guess we just pray about it - perhaps together would be best. I contacted Bonnie to see if there were potential work remotely options at Mercer. She wrote me back a positive email and said she'll look into it for me. Though, even if that works out, we still have to do something about care during the day - be it a nanny or daycare, etc. But at least I can have some flexibility to my day. Continuing to work at NW provides me zero flexibility.
We took a quick trip to MN last weekend and found some furniture at Crate & Barrel. So that's on its way. I really dislike shopping, and spending money, so it was not the best trip in my book. But we got to see my parents for a bit and C.T. feels a lot better about getting the house furnished. And around the same time, C.T. got struck with an icky cold. I thankfully never got it as bad (I think it's because of all the prenatal vitamins I take!)
Tomorrow I'm taking C.T. "out" for valentine's day. Though he'll probably guess the location before we get there (he usually is good at guessing), I'm taking him to the Art Museum. They're open late on Thursday evenings. Three or so years ago when we were living in Des Moines we went because valentines was on a thursday. So, this year we're celebrating early, but hopefully it's as fun as it was last time. And then maybe stop for dinner/dessert.
Coming up: We have a mostly open weekend ahead, and the weather is supposed to be 40s and gorgeous (especially compared to the last few days of below 0 temps). Perhaps we'll take the Penster for a long walk along Saylorville. About a week or so ago we went for the first time and it's a really nice peaceful stroll.
In celebration of Saul & Mike's birthdays we'll be getting together for dinner on Sunday.
Thursday, January 27, 2011
3rd Trimester
Here we go! Final lap! I'll be 28 weeks on Saturday. Lately she has become quite the gymnast. I can even look down and see my belly move when she kicks. Which is no wonder, I guess - she is over 2 pounds and about 16 inches in length. The funny thing is I have a hard time imaging her that size - I still for some reason think of her as a little tadpole in there.
Yesterday I worked on my crafts. I finished cutting out all the quilt pieces - it's going to look very cute, I hope I don't mess it up now! I made a fancy burp cloth (which sounds funny, but now it looks really cute) with a cheap cloth diaper and fleece fabric. It took me a little longer than I expected. And the sewing could be better, but I'm pretty happy with it for being the first one.
Yesterday I worked on my crafts. I finished cutting out all the quilt pieces - it's going to look very cute, I hope I don't mess it up now! I made a fancy burp cloth (which sounds funny, but now it looks really cute) with a cheap cloth diaper and fleece fabric. It took me a little longer than I expected. And the sewing could be better, but I'm pretty happy with it for being the first one.
Friday, January 21, 2011
Decisions, decisions...
We took advantage of having MLK day off of work and set up appointments at quite a few daycare centers. The reality of the whole situation is a lot to take in, and some centers were much better than others. Needless to say, we were really overwhelmed by the end of the day. Our favorite was the most expensive, but if I will be working full-time, cost is no issue. So for the past week we've been hemming and hawing over this decision. Do we take the conservative route and have me work full-time at my current job and do daycare? Do we have me find a different job for evenings and weekends? Do I drive a hard bargain at work and demand either work-from-home days, part-time, or reduced hours? Do we eat into our savings and hope things work out better in a year or two? Do I stay at home and watch another child in addition (perhaps little baby Lawson, who is due in August by the way, yay!)? So we are praying hard about this and doing the math the best we can. You can't predict the future, for better or worse. Financially, spiritually, or emotionally. I am hoping and praying for an option that feels right. The one great thing we have going for us is that my mom is willing to come down for a few weeks at a time this summer to watch Lucy. And I'm looking into taking some unpaid FMLA time off after that, which means we can delay daycare until at least 4 or 5 months.
Tuesday, January 18, 2011
A new year
I don't know why I have such a hard time keeping up with this blog. I think to write in it a few times a week, but then get to thinking that I don't know exactly what I want to say. Hope that changes, I do want to keep a journal of these pregnancy months and beyond so I can look back and remember.
Well, half way through January and here's the recap:
For New Years Eve we traveled to Pella and hung out with CT's college friends. There was a Euchre party going on that was really fun! And everyone there was really nice and friendly. One of his friends is expecting her 2nd baby and is about a month behind me. I was a tad jealous that she was taller than me because her baby bump doesn't start right under her chest like mine does. That's probably my only complaint as of late is that when I sit too long at work the top of my belly gets achy. Ah well.
It was strange having the next monday off of work because most people didn't (even the schools). But we got in a nice walk with the dog.
On the 4th we went to a Breastfeeding essentials class. It was helpful, and a tad overwhelming. I left thinking "this is going to be a lot of work"! But the up every few hours thing only lasts so long, I'll have to remember that. There were some helpful videos of latching on and we got some rules about breastmilk storage. Overall, glad we went.
On the 6th I had another doctor's appointment. I really liked the doctor I saw, I think I'll go on Thursdays now if it works schedule-wise! She was really nice and asked me more than just "so how's the pregnancy? good? okay bye" The heartbeat sounds good and my belly measures normal. I gained about 4 lbs since last month. I'm at 142 now. I really don't like seeing the scale that high, but I have to remember I am carrying a growing little girl (and more blood, and fluid, etc etc). I had my glucose screen and passed. Yay. The doctor said to schedule an appointment for February, and then they'll want to see me every 2 weeks after that. We're getting close!
Last weekend was MLK weekend. My mom came down for a visit, it was really good to see her. On Saturday we went to Homemakers for the upteenth time but we actually bought stuff! A couch and loveseat will be arriving next Saturday. yay! It wasn't our first choice, but we are sooo happy to get some furniture in that front room. The house will feel lived in when we welcome this baby. The rest of the day flew by, we stopped in a babies r us and that was about it. We drove up to Ames to see the gang and just chatted and held babies. On Sunday we tried out the church nearby "Prairie Ridge Church". It had some good vibes to it. We'll be going back. Then mom and I went to fabric stores and got some awesome seersucker fabric for making a baby quilt we saw in Martha Stewart magazine (no explanations though, thanks Martha!), some baby flannel for decorating burp cloths & onsies & bibs, and really discounted awesome fabric for recovering the rocking chair (we paid $3 for that fabric). We got home and recovered the chair with the help of my strong husband (the seat and back were just heavily glued into the frames - so he had to bust those out). We used the staple gun to wrap the seat and back with the new fabric, then reglued them into the frames. Ta-dah. Cool looking chair. After a quick dinner of fish & vegetables, my mom got on the road because Monday looks to be a bad weather travel day :( bummer.
I'm excited about my new sewing projects though! I've been feeling sort of crafty lately and mom left me her sewing machine. So on my to do list:
Add flannel to cloth diapers = cute burp cloths
Cut out animals/shapes and use fusible webbing to adhere onto onesies and bibs = cute outfits
Make seersucker quilt (at least piece together the top, mom will have to help finish the edges)
I'm entering my 27th week, and the last week of the 2nd trimester. Here's an update on baby Lucy - she's over 2 lbs now, and about 15 inches in length (from head to toe). Her sense of hearing is getting sharper, mainly because her brain is more developed. She can open her eyes and is practicing blinking. I am really looking forward to seeing her!!
Rachel was sweet enough to offer to throw me a baby shower! I'm guessing that won't be until March, but it's fun to think about! Heck, March is only one short month away, lol
Well, half way through January and here's the recap:
For New Years Eve we traveled to Pella and hung out with CT's college friends. There was a Euchre party going on that was really fun! And everyone there was really nice and friendly. One of his friends is expecting her 2nd baby and is about a month behind me. I was a tad jealous that she was taller than me because her baby bump doesn't start right under her chest like mine does. That's probably my only complaint as of late is that when I sit too long at work the top of my belly gets achy. Ah well.
It was strange having the next monday off of work because most people didn't (even the schools). But we got in a nice walk with the dog.
On the 4th we went to a Breastfeeding essentials class. It was helpful, and a tad overwhelming. I left thinking "this is going to be a lot of work"! But the up every few hours thing only lasts so long, I'll have to remember that. There were some helpful videos of latching on and we got some rules about breastmilk storage. Overall, glad we went.
On the 6th I had another doctor's appointment. I really liked the doctor I saw, I think I'll go on Thursdays now if it works schedule-wise! She was really nice and asked me more than just "so how's the pregnancy? good? okay bye" The heartbeat sounds good and my belly measures normal. I gained about 4 lbs since last month. I'm at 142 now. I really don't like seeing the scale that high, but I have to remember I am carrying a growing little girl (and more blood, and fluid, etc etc). I had my glucose screen and passed. Yay. The doctor said to schedule an appointment for February, and then they'll want to see me every 2 weeks after that. We're getting close!
Last weekend was MLK weekend. My mom came down for a visit, it was really good to see her. On Saturday we went to Homemakers for the upteenth time but we actually bought stuff! A couch and loveseat will be arriving next Saturday. yay! It wasn't our first choice, but we are sooo happy to get some furniture in that front room. The house will feel lived in when we welcome this baby. The rest of the day flew by, we stopped in a babies r us and that was about it. We drove up to Ames to see the gang and just chatted and held babies. On Sunday we tried out the church nearby "Prairie Ridge Church". It had some good vibes to it. We'll be going back. Then mom and I went to fabric stores and got some awesome seersucker fabric for making a baby quilt we saw in Martha Stewart magazine (no explanations though, thanks Martha!), some baby flannel for decorating burp cloths & onsies & bibs, and really discounted awesome fabric for recovering the rocking chair (we paid $3 for that fabric). We got home and recovered the chair with the help of my strong husband (the seat and back were just heavily glued into the frames - so he had to bust those out). We used the staple gun to wrap the seat and back with the new fabric, then reglued them into the frames. Ta-dah. Cool looking chair. After a quick dinner of fish & vegetables, my mom got on the road because Monday looks to be a bad weather travel day :( bummer.
I'm excited about my new sewing projects though! I've been feeling sort of crafty lately and mom left me her sewing machine. So on my to do list:
Add flannel to cloth diapers = cute burp cloths
Cut out animals/shapes and use fusible webbing to adhere onto onesies and bibs = cute outfits
Make seersucker quilt (at least piece together the top, mom will have to help finish the edges)
I'm entering my 27th week, and the last week of the 2nd trimester. Here's an update on baby Lucy - she's over 2 lbs now, and about 15 inches in length (from head to toe). Her sense of hearing is getting sharper, mainly because her brain is more developed. She can open her eyes and is practicing blinking. I am really looking forward to seeing her!!
Rachel was sweet enough to offer to throw me a baby shower! I'm guessing that won't be until March, but it's fun to think about! Heck, March is only one short month away, lol
Monday, December 27, 2010
Christmas
Here's a recap of Christmas festivities:
Since we would be out of town, and the brother's have strange work schedules, we decided to have C.T.'s dad, Kathy & Katie over for "Christmas" brunch the Sunday before. C.T. got me a really nice ($$) waffle maker, and we had a tried and true Alton Brown waffle recipe. So we had everyone over at what turned out to be noon. The table was decorated really pretty, with a red tablecloth and green cloth napkins. We had brunch and then opened presents. It was a nice way to do that side of the family - especially as our family is growing, perhaps this will become tradition?
That evening we met up with Sandra for dinner and A Christmas Carol play (a small production that turned out to be quite good!)
This year C.T. and I had Thursday and Friday off of work. So on Wednesday we packed up the car (after loading up the back, C.T. remarked "what are we going to do when we have the baby?" because we quickly filled up the honda) and headed to Minnesota. On Thursday we slept in, went to the dog park, tried furniture shopping (again...) and went for dinner at Tran, made a few last minute batches of cookies and played Ticket to Ride. C.T. blew us out of the water on that game - I don't know how he always gets the lucky cards!
On Christmas Eve we played a game of Monopoly before heading out to Grandma's house. There was dinner (no punch this year, John and I were debating whether she'd make it) and church - with candle-lit Silent Night - and cookies. We gave Grandma & Grandpa a scrabble game. They hadn't ever played, which was shocking! They really like crosswords and jumbles, so of course they took to this game quickly!
Christmas Day. Kayla, Steve and Syd arrived around noon and we ate the annual French Toast Bake (yum!) and then opened presents. We received some really nice things this year! Kayla gave us a painting of the Cherry in the Spoon. C.T. received a wooden box from dad. I got a stick blender which I am looking forward to using, and a lot of other cool things (A "penny dog" cookie cutter and a tiger hawk cookie cutter). I just love Christmas in Minnesota. They had many feet of snow up there. Penny loved it - she took the liberty of carving out running paths throughout the backyard. The tree looked beautiful as usual, and this year I took home some of my ornaments I've collected from Grandma or mom and dad over the years. It was kind of hard to break up all the threesomes :). After a trip to the dog park, the Pautsch's came over for steak dinner and gift exchange. Adam and Heidi were even in town! It was nice to catch up with them all. And then, it was over all too quickly. The next morning C.T. and I packed up again and headed on down the road.
We got in to Boone around 2:00 and ate a snacky dinner with Sandra and the brothers. We exchanged gifts and had a little dessert. We had planned on going to see a movie (like the last few years) but we missed the early show and 7:40 was too late for us. So back to Ankeny. And it felt really nice be home. C.T. shoveled the drive and I unpacked the car. We exhanged gifts before bed. I got him slipper shoes (without fur, do you know how rare that is?) and a Dave Matthews CD and a Dave Matthews lullaby tribute CD - which is pretty good. He was much too nice and got me some fun kitchen things, a tree skirt that he has plans to make into a family keepsake (our handprints, Penny's, the baby's...), and then he handed me a little jewelry box. I got teary. He got me beautiful pearl stud earrings. And he matched them with the jeweler to go with the existing pearl earrings I had from my grandma (I had lost one of the studs). Very sweet of him! We sat in the kitchen and listened to the lullaby CD and then went to bed. It was a lovely Christmas.
Can you believe she'll be here in less than 4 months! Wow!!! It was brought up quite a bit this year about how next Christmas will look with an 8 month old crawling around! And she was being cooperative so mom and kayla were able to feel her kick.
Since we would be out of town, and the brother's have strange work schedules, we decided to have C.T.'s dad, Kathy & Katie over for "Christmas" brunch the Sunday before. C.T. got me a really nice ($$) waffle maker, and we had a tried and true Alton Brown waffle recipe. So we had everyone over at what turned out to be noon. The table was decorated really pretty, with a red tablecloth and green cloth napkins. We had brunch and then opened presents. It was a nice way to do that side of the family - especially as our family is growing, perhaps this will become tradition?
That evening we met up with Sandra for dinner and A Christmas Carol play (a small production that turned out to be quite good!)
This year C.T. and I had Thursday and Friday off of work. So on Wednesday we packed up the car (after loading up the back, C.T. remarked "what are we going to do when we have the baby?" because we quickly filled up the honda) and headed to Minnesota. On Thursday we slept in, went to the dog park, tried furniture shopping (again...) and went for dinner at Tran, made a few last minute batches of cookies and played Ticket to Ride. C.T. blew us out of the water on that game - I don't know how he always gets the lucky cards!
On Christmas Eve we played a game of Monopoly before heading out to Grandma's house. There was dinner (no punch this year, John and I were debating whether she'd make it) and church - with candle-lit Silent Night - and cookies. We gave Grandma & Grandpa a scrabble game. They hadn't ever played, which was shocking! They really like crosswords and jumbles, so of course they took to this game quickly!
Christmas Day. Kayla, Steve and Syd arrived around noon and we ate the annual French Toast Bake (yum!) and then opened presents. We received some really nice things this year! Kayla gave us a painting of the Cherry in the Spoon. C.T. received a wooden box from dad. I got a stick blender which I am looking forward to using, and a lot of other cool things (A "penny dog" cookie cutter and a tiger hawk cookie cutter). I just love Christmas in Minnesota. They had many feet of snow up there. Penny loved it - she took the liberty of carving out running paths throughout the backyard. The tree looked beautiful as usual, and this year I took home some of my ornaments I've collected from Grandma or mom and dad over the years. It was kind of hard to break up all the threesomes :). After a trip to the dog park, the Pautsch's came over for steak dinner and gift exchange. Adam and Heidi were even in town! It was nice to catch up with them all. And then, it was over all too quickly. The next morning C.T. and I packed up again and headed on down the road.
We got in to Boone around 2:00 and ate a snacky dinner with Sandra and the brothers. We exchanged gifts and had a little dessert. We had planned on going to see a movie (like the last few years) but we missed the early show and 7:40 was too late for us. So back to Ankeny. And it felt really nice be home. C.T. shoveled the drive and I unpacked the car. We exhanged gifts before bed. I got him slipper shoes (without fur, do you know how rare that is?) and a Dave Matthews CD and a Dave Matthews lullaby tribute CD - which is pretty good. He was much too nice and got me some fun kitchen things, a tree skirt that he has plans to make into a family keepsake (our handprints, Penny's, the baby's...), and then he handed me a little jewelry box. I got teary. He got me beautiful pearl stud earrings. And he matched them with the jeweler to go with the existing pearl earrings I had from my grandma (I had lost one of the studs). Very sweet of him! We sat in the kitchen and listened to the lullaby CD and then went to bed. It was a lovely Christmas.
Can you believe she'll be here in less than 4 months! Wow!!! It was brought up quite a bit this year about how next Christmas will look with an 8 month old crawling around! And she was being cooperative so mom and kayla were able to feel her kick.
Thursday, December 23, 2010
Movers, shakers...
She is really moving around a lot lately! And I can feel her a lot more than before. The other day, C.T. was able to feel from the outside the teeny kicks and punches - which was a really cool moment. She seems to be most active when I wake up, just before a meal (when I'm getting hungry) and then again later at night. I'm having a hard time imagining what she'll feel like in another month or so!
I'm really looking forward to meeting her.
I'm really looking forward to meeting her.
Wednesday, December 15, 2010
Long post...
Ok, it has been FAR too long since I posted here last. So be prepared for a lengthly post, but enjoy!
I'm at 21.5 weeks today, and feeling pretty good! I am getting over a head cold (which thankfully was not the flu - I would feel terrible not getting the flu shot and then getting the flu! so here's hoping I continue my healthy streak. They say pregnant people are more susceptible to getting sick because of a suppressed immune system, but I think it's because we use the bathroom 3 times more than everyone else! lol)
The ultrasound a week ago was amazing. We were lucky enough to get lots of pictures (the technician said she was very photogenic and she couldn't help herself). There's a cute one of her profile, a few neat hand shots, and one I like of her with arms up in a boxing stance :) It was a special moment for me, holding the hand of my husband and watching our little girl in her snug temporary home. I was really happy to see her so squirmy - I hadn't really felt her moving around consistently. At the ultrasound they estimated she weighed 12 ounces. And we were told everything looks average and normal!
With knowing the gender now, it feels a bit more real. There's not just any old tiny human growing, but our daughter! I think C.T. had a short overwhelmed moment where he suddenly went to fending her off from boyfriends and dancing at her wedding! :) Both of us didn't care one way or the other, and it was a bit strange but we felt a little sad we weren't having one of each! Boys have their look-forward-to moments and girls have their own. I, for one, can't wait to braid her hair, kiss and snuggle her, cook & bake together, dream up fairy tale lands...etc etc!
I think we're pretty set on the name Lucy - but we might spell it Lucie instead. Not sure yet. And C.T. is liking the full name of Lucia. We will see!
I am definitely looking pregnant these days. There are days I feel pretty uncomfortable, but nothing too bad. I am doing my best to get to the gym a few days a week. It feels good to sweat since I spend most of my day sitting. I've tried to get to the pool, but unless I get up extra early, it's tough to fit it in around the swim meets & lessons going on in the evenings. Occasionally my back will be tight, and a few times I've woken up in the middle of the night with my calf cramping up, and I do feel the round ligament pain especially if I've been inactive for awhile, but overall no complaints! I still have my moments where I think "I'm gaining too much weight" "Other people this far along don't look as big". I have to remind myself that everybody's different, and as long as she is healthy in there, I shouldn't worry.
We went to our Baby Basics class the other night. The lady who led it definitely had her own opinions on things, but overall I agreed and we learned some good stuff. We first went over how to bathe - basically hold onto the baby & do your best, haha. She went over swaddling & diaper changing. C.T. changed his first diaper, no problem. She had some good pictures of what things will look like: birth marks, the cord, etc. She told us of her five S's to calm a fussy baby: Swaddle, Side/stomach, Swing, Shh, Suck. There's plenty of advice out there, I hope that I can do a good job of not being too stubborn.
Oh, the things babies "need". We went into a Babies R Us the other day to look around. I'm attempting to be as less-is-more as possible. The carseat I like is by Chicco and is about $180. That brand also has a stroller I really like because it's not a full size huge one, but it can still hold a carseat & has a regular seat that fully reclines for infants. I looked into bassinets, moses baskets, etc. but I think it would be easiest to just keep the big crib in our bedroom to start out with - we have the space. And in six months or so we can move it to her own room. I think the wooden rocker C.T. found at a garage sale will work just fine. My mom and I will recover it and make it cute. I know it would be nice to have a glider, but we could always get one later if needed. One of these days we should register for shower gifts. Also on the to-do list for January is find a day care and find a pediatrician. No small feat there! We are praying about all these big decisions coming up.
I'm at 21.5 weeks today, and feeling pretty good! I am getting over a head cold (which thankfully was not the flu - I would feel terrible not getting the flu shot and then getting the flu! so here's hoping I continue my healthy streak. They say pregnant people are more susceptible to getting sick because of a suppressed immune system, but I think it's because we use the bathroom 3 times more than everyone else! lol)
The ultrasound a week ago was amazing. We were lucky enough to get lots of pictures (the technician said she was very photogenic and she couldn't help herself). There's a cute one of her profile, a few neat hand shots, and one I like of her with arms up in a boxing stance :) It was a special moment for me, holding the hand of my husband and watching our little girl in her snug temporary home. I was really happy to see her so squirmy - I hadn't really felt her moving around consistently. At the ultrasound they estimated she weighed 12 ounces. And we were told everything looks average and normal!
With knowing the gender now, it feels a bit more real. There's not just any old tiny human growing, but our daughter! I think C.T. had a short overwhelmed moment where he suddenly went to fending her off from boyfriends and dancing at her wedding! :) Both of us didn't care one way or the other, and it was a bit strange but we felt a little sad we weren't having one of each! Boys have their look-forward-to moments and girls have their own. I, for one, can't wait to braid her hair, kiss and snuggle her, cook & bake together, dream up fairy tale lands...etc etc!
I think we're pretty set on the name Lucy - but we might spell it Lucie instead. Not sure yet. And C.T. is liking the full name of Lucia. We will see!
I am definitely looking pregnant these days. There are days I feel pretty uncomfortable, but nothing too bad. I am doing my best to get to the gym a few days a week. It feels good to sweat since I spend most of my day sitting. I've tried to get to the pool, but unless I get up extra early, it's tough to fit it in around the swim meets & lessons going on in the evenings. Occasionally my back will be tight, and a few times I've woken up in the middle of the night with my calf cramping up, and I do feel the round ligament pain especially if I've been inactive for awhile, but overall no complaints! I still have my moments where I think "I'm gaining too much weight" "Other people this far along don't look as big". I have to remind myself that everybody's different, and as long as she is healthy in there, I shouldn't worry.
We went to our Baby Basics class the other night. The lady who led it definitely had her own opinions on things, but overall I agreed and we learned some good stuff. We first went over how to bathe - basically hold onto the baby & do your best, haha. She went over swaddling & diaper changing. C.T. changed his first diaper, no problem. She had some good pictures of what things will look like: birth marks, the cord, etc. She told us of her five S's to calm a fussy baby: Swaddle, Side/stomach, Swing, Shh, Suck. There's plenty of advice out there, I hope that I can do a good job of not being too stubborn.
Oh, the things babies "need". We went into a Babies R Us the other day to look around. I'm attempting to be as less-is-more as possible. The carseat I like is by Chicco and is about $180. That brand also has a stroller I really like because it's not a full size huge one, but it can still hold a carseat & has a regular seat that fully reclines for infants. I looked into bassinets, moses baskets, etc. but I think it would be easiest to just keep the big crib in our bedroom to start out with - we have the space. And in six months or so we can move it to her own room. I think the wooden rocker C.T. found at a garage sale will work just fine. My mom and I will recover it and make it cute. I know it would be nice to have a glider, but we could always get one later if needed. One of these days we should register for shower gifts. Also on the to-do list for January is find a day care and find a pediatrician. No small feat there! We are praying about all these big decisions coming up.
Monday, December 6, 2010
We're having a GIRL
We had the ultrasound this morning. We're having a baby girl! We are so excited!
Monday, November 8, 2010
Finally feeling comfortable with this growing body
For some unexplainable reason, when I reached 16 weeks on Saturday I finally felt happy with my growing belly. I had it in my head that I shouldn't be showing this much already or gaining so much weight early on. But I have to remember that everyone's body is different, and there is no real "normal".
I had a nice visit with my parents last weekend while C.T. was in Indiana for a guys weekend to watch the Iowa game. She said she gained around 30 or 35 with us girls, and then 65 with my brother. And that makes me feel a lot better, because she definitely lost that weight soon after. My mom also said I should be feeling the baby kick any day now, but that it will be more like a tiny internal flutter.
We went into a fancy baby store down on Grand ave - there's a lot of stuff you could buy for baby! Some of the things on my wish list already are a nice high chair, glass bottles, one of those wrap things, and a nice stroller. We were also able to get some ideas for the crib dad's making. I'm hoping I keep to my less is more mentality. Especially for toys and such - here's what I imagine will be in our toy box: wooden blocks, legos, cars, play kitchen, puzzles, balls, doll house, crayons. Oh, I can't wait for the coloring years!
I had a nice visit with my parents last weekend while C.T. was in Indiana for a guys weekend to watch the Iowa game. She said she gained around 30 or 35 with us girls, and then 65 with my brother. And that makes me feel a lot better, because she definitely lost that weight soon after. My mom also said I should be feeling the baby kick any day now, but that it will be more like a tiny internal flutter.
We went into a fancy baby store down on Grand ave - there's a lot of stuff you could buy for baby! Some of the things on my wish list already are a nice high chair, glass bottles, one of those wrap things, and a nice stroller. We were also able to get some ideas for the crib dad's making. I'm hoping I keep to my less is more mentality. Especially for toys and such - here's what I imagine will be in our toy box: wooden blocks, legos, cars, play kitchen, puzzles, balls, doll house, crayons. Oh, I can't wait for the coloring years!
Monday, October 25, 2010
Baby Names
I realized I haven't blogged about this yet. We definitely have a front-runner in each of the gender categories. The vetoes have been flying around like crazy though!
Top boy name: Henry Christian
Middle name is after his father. We'd likely call him Hank.
What we've considered: Luke, Cedar
Top girl name: Lucille Kathleen
Middle name is after her grandmothers (my mom's name and C.T.'s mom's middle name). We'd call her Lucy.
What we've considered: Violet, Mallory
Top boy name: Henry Christian
Middle name is after his father. We'd likely call him Hank.
What we've considered: Luke, Cedar
Top girl name: Lucille Kathleen
Middle name is after her grandmothers (my mom's name and C.T.'s mom's middle name). We'd call her Lucy.
What we've considered: Violet, Mallory
Size of a fist!
We hit 14 weeks on Saturday. The baby is about the size of a fist and growing every day. He/she has a permanent hairline (isn't that weird?) and is now covered in lanugo - downy hair to keep the babe warm until accumulating baby fat. By the end of this week the ears will have moved to their proper position on the side of the head (not the neck) and the eyes will move to the center of the face. So strange! At this point, the baby is moving a ton - practicing the use of all its body parts.
Well for the past week or so, C.T. has been sick with a cold, poor guy. I've felt pretty good - some days are great, others just okay. I found out I have this strange business going on on my tonsils. I'm hoping it's due to the increased hormone stuff. But I'll go see the doctor just in case. This happens every exam season, the body is stressed out from all the worry and effort and its so easy to catch a cold. We are close to the end, only 2 weeks away. Then, it's back to focusing on enjoying the weather, the holidays, family, friends, etc. I'm already gearing up for this year's Turkey Trot :) (2 years ago I convinced C.T. to run a 5k with me around Colby Lake the morning of Thanksgiving. Now it's tradition!) And I've tried brainstorming about Christmas gifts. I bought halloween candy yesterday, and was immediately reprimanded for getting the "cheap" stuff, lol, I happen to like Nerds, Sweet Tarts and Bottle Caps. C.T. seemed to think that's what all the kids dread getting. I told him at least they're not Smarties. I did get some chocolate things too. I'm guessing we'll have a lot of kids in this neighborhood. And we're going to be home for the night - studying and answering the door. Penny might have to hang out in the backyard (she's getting really good at barking at the door bell - even those on TV or radio).
I talked with my manager last week - and it went fine. We didn't discuss my work options for after the birth, but I figure I'll bring that up another day.
We started following the study book to the latest sermon series at Woodland. So far it's great! I'm willing and eager to see some growth out of it.
This friday we are going out to dinner to celebrate it being 4 years since we began our relationship. There's this neat french place operating out of an old house in the Sherman Hill area with local cuisine. Should be good! It's hard to imagine that it's been only 4 years - so much has changed! I hope that we always continue to date one another and simply enjoy one another's company. Sigh, remember when grocery shopping together felt like a date?
Coming up: A week of studying, friday date night, & halloween
Well for the past week or so, C.T. has been sick with a cold, poor guy. I've felt pretty good - some days are great, others just okay. I found out I have this strange business going on on my tonsils. I'm hoping it's due to the increased hormone stuff. But I'll go see the doctor just in case. This happens every exam season, the body is stressed out from all the worry and effort and its so easy to catch a cold. We are close to the end, only 2 weeks away. Then, it's back to focusing on enjoying the weather, the holidays, family, friends, etc. I'm already gearing up for this year's Turkey Trot :) (2 years ago I convinced C.T. to run a 5k with me around Colby Lake the morning of Thanksgiving. Now it's tradition!) And I've tried brainstorming about Christmas gifts. I bought halloween candy yesterday, and was immediately reprimanded for getting the "cheap" stuff, lol, I happen to like Nerds, Sweet Tarts and Bottle Caps. C.T. seemed to think that's what all the kids dread getting. I told him at least they're not Smarties. I did get some chocolate things too. I'm guessing we'll have a lot of kids in this neighborhood. And we're going to be home for the night - studying and answering the door. Penny might have to hang out in the backyard (she's getting really good at barking at the door bell - even those on TV or radio).
I talked with my manager last week - and it went fine. We didn't discuss my work options for after the birth, but I figure I'll bring that up another day.
We started following the study book to the latest sermon series at Woodland. So far it's great! I'm willing and eager to see some growth out of it.
This friday we are going out to dinner to celebrate it being 4 years since we began our relationship. There's this neat french place operating out of an old house in the Sherman Hill area with local cuisine. Should be good! It's hard to imagine that it's been only 4 years - so much has changed! I hope that we always continue to date one another and simply enjoy one another's company. Sigh, remember when grocery shopping together felt like a date?
Coming up: A week of studying, friday date night, & halloween
Wednesday, October 13, 2010
Is it October?
The weather has been gorgeous lately - if not a bit too hot out. I mean, it's middle of October and the temps are still in the 70s/80s. I like the cool fall weather - so hopefully full blown winter doesn't start up before we get sweatshirt and bonfire weather.
As an update, the roasted chicken was awesome. Once I got over the ick factor of prepping a fresh chicken, it was really simple and tasted so yummy. I originally planned on having leftovers, but the Carlsons were able to come over for dinner and we ate almost the entire thing! The squash was also a hit. Everyone was a little skeptical, but all said they enjoyed it. So, now that I've done it once, it'll be a snap to make that more often this fall/winter.
Last weekend we had dinner at Yanni's in Ankeny with Carlsons and Albers. Albers are excited for us, as expected :) I really like our friends. On Saturday we were all ready to lay down grass seed, but after talking to the guy at TNT he suggested we wait a few more weeks. Bummer. But we did pick up all the supplies we'll need. Sunday we had a minor crisis at our house. We could smell gas (to me it smelled like regular gasoline) out in the front yard. MidAmerican came out to check on it and found that the natural gas line was leaking! They dug up the line and found that whoever installed the pipes didn't screw a cap on correctly and it likely had been slowly leaking for 6+years. That explains why the grass in that area never grew in properly, and why the tree out front looks so sickly. When they dug up the ground the soil had a green tinge to it. Thankfully, there was no signs of natural gas up near the house, and we have CO detectors now.
Today I had my second doctor's appointment. It was short and sweet - the routine pee in a cup and check blood pressure and weight. I've only gained 2 pounds since last month (whew!) which I'm happy about. Then a quick chat with the nurse and we listened to the baby's heartbeat. Baby's clocking it at around 150 bpm. This Saturday I'll be 13 weeks, the end of the 1st trimester. I've been looking forward to this purely for the easing of nausea! An update on the baby's growth: Now 3 inches long, about the size of a peach. The intestines are moving from the umbilical cord (where they developed) into the abdomen, and vocal chords are forming.
I've been in a funk for the past few days, but I think I'm finally pulling out of it. It started by finding out my exam results. But I really have sooo much to be grateful for and to look forward to. I have a wonderful husband who is helpful and compassionate and loving. God has blessed us with this growing baby. We have a joyous dog who cannot get enough attention. Our families and friends love us a lot. So see? There's hardly a thing to be sad about!
Coming up: Same old song and dance - studying, walks, Survivor night.
As an update, the roasted chicken was awesome. Once I got over the ick factor of prepping a fresh chicken, it was really simple and tasted so yummy. I originally planned on having leftovers, but the Carlsons were able to come over for dinner and we ate almost the entire thing! The squash was also a hit. Everyone was a little skeptical, but all said they enjoyed it. So, now that I've done it once, it'll be a snap to make that more often this fall/winter.
Last weekend we had dinner at Yanni's in Ankeny with Carlsons and Albers. Albers are excited for us, as expected :) I really like our friends. On Saturday we were all ready to lay down grass seed, but after talking to the guy at TNT he suggested we wait a few more weeks. Bummer. But we did pick up all the supplies we'll need. Sunday we had a minor crisis at our house. We could smell gas (to me it smelled like regular gasoline) out in the front yard. MidAmerican came out to check on it and found that the natural gas line was leaking! They dug up the line and found that whoever installed the pipes didn't screw a cap on correctly and it likely had been slowly leaking for 6+years. That explains why the grass in that area never grew in properly, and why the tree out front looks so sickly. When they dug up the ground the soil had a green tinge to it. Thankfully, there was no signs of natural gas up near the house, and we have CO detectors now.
Today I had my second doctor's appointment. It was short and sweet - the routine pee in a cup and check blood pressure and weight. I've only gained 2 pounds since last month (whew!) which I'm happy about. Then a quick chat with the nurse and we listened to the baby's heartbeat. Baby's clocking it at around 150 bpm. This Saturday I'll be 13 weeks, the end of the 1st trimester. I've been looking forward to this purely for the easing of nausea! An update on the baby's growth: Now 3 inches long, about the size of a peach. The intestines are moving from the umbilical cord (where they developed) into the abdomen, and vocal chords are forming.
I've been in a funk for the past few days, but I think I'm finally pulling out of it. It started by finding out my exam results. But I really have sooo much to be grateful for and to look forward to. I have a wonderful husband who is helpful and compassionate and loving. God has blessed us with this growing baby. We have a joyous dog who cannot get enough attention. Our families and friends love us a lot. So see? There's hardly a thing to be sad about!
Coming up: Same old song and dance - studying, walks, Survivor night.
Wednesday, October 6, 2010
A lovely weekend
I had a wonderful weekend. I took Friday off of work and drove up to MN with Penny on Thursday night. Friday we went to the dog park, went to yoga, made granola bars, went maternity clothes shopping, made an apple pie, stopped by the open house of this cute shop in Afton, and cooked roast for dinner. Grandma and Grandpa were over for dinner and to say the least they are very excited about the baby!
I like yoga - although I realize I was spoiled by a really good instructor when we were at LA fitness. The lady teaching the class that day was 4 months pregnant - see I can do most all these moves!
I was a bit hesitant to go maternity clothes shopping, but as soon as I got home this week and tried on my work pants, I'm very glad I went! I got two pairs of jeans and a pair of black work pants, and a handful of tshirts. My favorite purhase so far has been the Belly Band - its a spandex-y tube top looking thing that your use over your regular pants to hold them up when unbuttoned. I've been wearing it all week to work and it works wonders. If it peeks out under a shirt, it looks like I'm wearing a tight undershirt. Completely unnoticeable.
Funny story while we were at the garden shop in Afton - I had picked out a sprig of bittersweet, a low basket, and 3 ceramic pots that fit in the basket. As I'm standing in line with my purchases, this lady behind us comments "oh, that bittersweet is really cool looking, better than mine - are there more left?" we say we're not sure but they have them all over the store. She scurries off to look. When she gets back she notices the pots "are there any more of those pots?" why yes, over on the sale table. We get to the checkout and the cashier comments on how great a deal the basket is. Same lady, "are there any more of those baskets?"
At dinner we had squash, and it was yummy and good for you, so I'm determined to make some this week!
On Saturday we did a Trader Joe's run (the one in WDM will open in Nov) and made another apple pie for me to take back. We went to lunch at Tran (delicious!!) before I got on the road. I picked up CT from the airport and we spent the rest of the evening watching the Penn State game.
The last 3 days I've felt sicker than usual. But thankfully today my stomach seems to be cooperating better. This week we've started a new little pattern. After a quick snack, CT is off to the library to study while I take Penny for a walk and get dinner ready. Monday we had spaghetti with meat sauce, salad and bread. Tuesday we had lemon pepper tilapia with asparagus risotto and salad. Tonight I'm venturing to make a whole roasted chicken and roasted squash. I don't have a roasting pan for the chicken, so I've been reading up on what to do instead. Here's hoping the chicken turns out alright! We've invited Bryce and Rachel over for dinner and to watch Survivor. Not sure if they'll make it though - they are likely preparing for Rachel to go back to work tomorrow (oh how time flies!).
Speaking of going back to work. Now, I haven't talked to my work yet, but I'm really really hoping I can do part time. That way I'll work 5 days every 2 weeks. And if Carlson's do any sort of reduced work week - we could potentially trade off days and have the kids at home as much as possible. That would be ideal.
Coming up: Well, the roast chicken experiment, and hopefully a quick end to the week! Tomorrow night is Actuarial evening at Drake. This weekend is supposed to be beautiful weather and fingers crossed we'll get some lawn work in!
I like yoga - although I realize I was spoiled by a really good instructor when we were at LA fitness. The lady teaching the class that day was 4 months pregnant - see I can do most all these moves!
I was a bit hesitant to go maternity clothes shopping, but as soon as I got home this week and tried on my work pants, I'm very glad I went! I got two pairs of jeans and a pair of black work pants, and a handful of tshirts. My favorite purhase so far has been the Belly Band - its a spandex-y tube top looking thing that your use over your regular pants to hold them up when unbuttoned. I've been wearing it all week to work and it works wonders. If it peeks out under a shirt, it looks like I'm wearing a tight undershirt. Completely unnoticeable.
Funny story while we were at the garden shop in Afton - I had picked out a sprig of bittersweet, a low basket, and 3 ceramic pots that fit in the basket. As I'm standing in line with my purchases, this lady behind us comments "oh, that bittersweet is really cool looking, better than mine - are there more left?" we say we're not sure but they have them all over the store. She scurries off to look. When she gets back she notices the pots "are there any more of those pots?" why yes, over on the sale table. We get to the checkout and the cashier comments on how great a deal the basket is. Same lady, "are there any more of those baskets?"
At dinner we had squash, and it was yummy and good for you, so I'm determined to make some this week!
On Saturday we did a Trader Joe's run (the one in WDM will open in Nov) and made another apple pie for me to take back. We went to lunch at Tran (delicious!!) before I got on the road. I picked up CT from the airport and we spent the rest of the evening watching the Penn State game.
The last 3 days I've felt sicker than usual. But thankfully today my stomach seems to be cooperating better. This week we've started a new little pattern. After a quick snack, CT is off to the library to study while I take Penny for a walk and get dinner ready. Monday we had spaghetti with meat sauce, salad and bread. Tuesday we had lemon pepper tilapia with asparagus risotto and salad. Tonight I'm venturing to make a whole roasted chicken and roasted squash. I don't have a roasting pan for the chicken, so I've been reading up on what to do instead. Here's hoping the chicken turns out alright! We've invited Bryce and Rachel over for dinner and to watch Survivor. Not sure if they'll make it though - they are likely preparing for Rachel to go back to work tomorrow (oh how time flies!).
Speaking of going back to work. Now, I haven't talked to my work yet, but I'm really really hoping I can do part time. That way I'll work 5 days every 2 weeks. And if Carlson's do any sort of reduced work week - we could potentially trade off days and have the kids at home as much as possible. That would be ideal.
Coming up: Well, the roast chicken experiment, and hopefully a quick end to the week! Tomorrow night is Actuarial evening at Drake. This weekend is supposed to be beautiful weather and fingers crossed we'll get some lawn work in!
Wednesday, September 29, 2010
No good very bad day
Well the past few days haven't been wonderful. Here's my short list of complaints, and then I promise I'll get my positive mindset back
1) CT is out of town, I miss him. 2) Actually threw up on Sunday, out of nowhere! But as soon as it was over, I felt tremendously better, haha. 3) New job prospect fell through. 4) Today's the first day I caved and wore work pants, unbuttoned, with a rubber band holding it together, and a long shirt.
Onto the positives: I've been run/walking with Penny after work this week. We go for approx 2 miles. I want to keep this up - it makes me feel more in shape and less bulgy. Fall TV is back! So I have a whole DVR of shows recorded. I like that I can get through a 2 hr Biggest Loser in approx 45 min.
I'm going up to MN for a visit on Friday since CT is still out of town and I could use a break and a visit. I hope to see Grandma and Grandpa and tell them the news! This little baby is a first for a lot of people! I think we're going to tell friends and others about it 2 weeks or so. Once we've successfully wrapped up the 1st Trimester.
Fun baby fact: At 11 weeks, the baby moves about 30% of the time. Lungs are practicing, fingers wiggle, other organs go through the motions. But in a few short weeks the brain says "ok, cool it. you're wearing yourself out" and movements become much less frequent, but nevertheless more coordinated and interesting.
Coming up: Survivor night with the Carlsons tonigh. Trip to MN with Penny Thursday evening. Back on Saturday to pick up CT from the airport and watch the Iowa/Penn State game.
1) CT is out of town, I miss him. 2) Actually threw up on Sunday, out of nowhere! But as soon as it was over, I felt tremendously better, haha. 3) New job prospect fell through. 4) Today's the first day I caved and wore work pants, unbuttoned, with a rubber band holding it together, and a long shirt.
Onto the positives: I've been run/walking with Penny after work this week. We go for approx 2 miles. I want to keep this up - it makes me feel more in shape and less bulgy. Fall TV is back! So I have a whole DVR of shows recorded. I like that I can get through a 2 hr Biggest Loser in approx 45 min.
I'm going up to MN for a visit on Friday since CT is still out of town and I could use a break and a visit. I hope to see Grandma and Grandpa and tell them the news! This little baby is a first for a lot of people! I think we're going to tell friends and others about it 2 weeks or so. Once we've successfully wrapped up the 1st Trimester.
Fun baby fact: At 11 weeks, the baby moves about 30% of the time. Lungs are practicing, fingers wiggle, other organs go through the motions. But in a few short weeks the brain says "ok, cool it. you're wearing yourself out" and movements become much less frequent, but nevertheless more coordinated and interesting.
Coming up: Survivor night with the Carlsons tonigh. Trip to MN with Penny Thursday evening. Back on Saturday to pick up CT from the airport and watch the Iowa/Penn State game.
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